First some football pictures. Youngest son lost their first game, middle son had 4 points to his name and won their first game, oldest son lost their game.
Yougest Son


Middle Son



Now how did that get in here?

Oldest Son: (aren’t you glad I don’t have more kids, hehe)

Awwww my manly man:

Look at that four point stance. (yes I am proud that I KNOW that is a 4pt stance)


What kicking form. Good job baby…

Everything was going good until oldest son’s game. Right at the beginning, a kids from the opposing team broke his elbow and had to go the hospital, then later towards the end of the game one our players either sprained or popped his knee and had to go to the hospital. But what shook me up was the accident before half time. The type of accident that leaves this mother in the stands, with tears streaming down her face wondering why I let my kids play football.
From the stands all the crowd could see is one of our players was down, and not moving. They called the ambulance, still he was not moving. And the word was it was his neck. I was shaking and it took everything I had to not go get my son and head home… game over. But I could not, especially with manly man coaching, I knew he would protect our son to the best of his ability.
We came home and I walked into the bedroom with manly man and just sobbed into his shirt saying, “that could have been my son.” At the time we did not know if this kid broke his neck or if he will ever walk again. It was to much reality for this mother and I knew some other mom was sitting at the hospital wondering if her child was ok.
We had planned to go out to dinner for manly man’s birthday, so as a family we continued with our plans and tried to be upbeat. But it is like having an elephant in the room and trying to ignore it, we were all wondering about this young boy. One the way home things began hitting my 14 year old and he began crying and could not stop.
Manly man called the other coaches to see if there was any updates on either of our players injuries. Finally we got a call around 11pm telling us this sweet boy got what is called a stinger (which made it so he could not move his limbs) but later on at the hospital everything came back. And all he has is a badly sprained neck. Praise Jesus!!!
So I still ask the question. Why do I let my boys play football. I guess I am going to ask why do I let my child drive? Why am I going to let my child go off to college? I think as a Mother I can only protect them so much, but this weekend shook me to the core. It truly is like having your heart walk on the outside of your body when you have kids.